Everybody else seems to be, so why aren't you? It is everywhere. I am not just talking about the celebrity debacles in the press. Tiger Woods was the most ridiculous episode of male stupidity ever. I am talking in the real world. Men who maintain two or three cell phones, just to keep the wife, the job, and the sweetheart organized. Women with multiple facebook identities, and e-mail addresses. Physical and emotional cheating on their significant others. No one seems to be paying any attention to their marriage vows, to loyalty, or fidelity.

So why are you not cheating? Why are you not on the band wagon? You are now minority, and therefore fighting against societal norm. I do not want to hear the rhetoric about religion, vows, promises made, because those have now become just words in a play performed before a priest, to pacify the familial audience. What are the true and real reason that you have chosen to either have an affair, or not to have an affair?